Bougie de domination 7 jours (violette)

Reframed around consent. We describe this candle plainly: it does not override anyone else's free will, choices, or feelings, and is not intended to influence another person without their consent. Its value is as a personal focus tool, and we'd rather be clear about that than sell an outcome we can't deliver.

Built for a full week of preparation. With roughly 120 hours of burn time in a glass container, it's suited to being relit daily in the run-up to whatever moment you're steadying yourself for.

A companion to real preparation. Use it alongside practical preparation — notes, practice conversations, a plan — rather than in place of it. For more intention-setting tools, see the <a href="/collections/candles-spiritual-candles" title="Spiritual Candles | Ritual &amp; Intention Candles">Spiritual Candles collection</a>.

Personal confidence focus. This candle gives you a dedicated focus for your own resolve and assertiveness, not a tool aimed at anyone else's choices or feelings.

~120 hour burn time. Roughly 120 hours of burn time supports repeated lighting across the days leading up to a hard conversation, negotiation, or decision.

Multi-day preparation ritual. Because it can be relit at the same hour each day, it works well as a short daily check-in with your own resolve in the run-up to a challenging moment.

Time-honored purple candle work. Purple carries a long connection with confidence and authority in candle-magic practice; this candle continues that practice while keeping the intention squarely on the person lighting it.

Set up your space. Place the candle in a fire-safe dish or on a heat-resistant, stable surface, away from drafts and flammable items.

Light with intention. Light the candle while focusing on your own confidence and resolve — not on the other person's expected reaction.

Sit with it briefly. Let it burn for a comfortable interval, ideally at the same time each day, while you mentally prepare.

Extinguish and store. Extinguish carefully between sessions and let the glass cool before moving it.

Composition. A solid purple wax candle set in a glass container, with a cotton wick.

What we can confirm. We don't have supplier documentation for the exact wax blend, dye, or any fragrance used, so we avoid unverifiable purity claims. Contact us before use if you have a known sensitivity.

Storage. Store upright in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight and heat, which can soften or fade the wax color.

General guidance. As general, hedged guidance, a candle like this is typically good for 12–24 months when stored properly.

Open flame. This is a real-wax candle with an open flame. Never leave it burning unattended, and keep it well away from children, pets, and flammable materials.

Surface and handling. Burn on a heat-resistant, stable surface, and allow the glass container to cool fully before handling or moving it.

Wick care. Trim the wick to about 1/4 inch before each lighting, and discontinue burning once roughly 1/2 inch of wax remains.

Caution: Never leave a burning candle unattended. Burn on a heat-resistant, stable surface away from drafts, flammable materials, children, and pets. Trim the wick to 1/4 inch before each burn, and discontinue burning once about 1/2 inch of wax remains.

Disclaimer: This candle is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease or medical condition. Individual results and experiences vary and are not guaranteed.

Guidance Note: For guidance and reflection only; not a substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice.

Licensing & Trademarks: Product names and imagery on this page are used descriptively to identify the item and its time-honored theme. Any third-party names or trademarks referenced belong to their respective owners and are not implied to endorse or sponsor this product.

We process and ship all orders within 1–2 business days.

Most customers receive their orders within 4–7 business days, depending on location and carrier performance.

Once your order ships, you'll receive a tracking number via email or SMS to follow your delivery in real time.

Delivery times may vary slightly during peak seasons or weather conditions, but we always aim to get your order to you as quickly as possible.

We accept returns and exchanges within 14 days of delivery.